How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can we trust the Bible when Constantine and the First Council of Nicaea took out many books of the Bible and altered existing translation by removing things?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What should a young woman do to control sagging breasts?

That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why is every human messed up in some way?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why am I so tired of seeing homeless people all over the place?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do older men like to get anal sex?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What's it like to have an IQ of 140 to 170? Do people notice you're different?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What is something you want to "get off your chest"?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What is a common thought that keeps people up at night? Why do some people experience this?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.